Wednesday, March 26, 2008

Feelings and Emotions: Constructive or Destructive.

Feelings are hard to describe and put into words. They either get misinterpreted by yourself as you write/voice them out or by the person who is reading it.

Broadcasted feelings brings attention or remain hidden until someone (maybe yourself) finds and read it... As misinterpreted feelings (most common) may not be true, they either bring about unneeded/excessive attention or sets people thinking the wrong way.

Feelings if interpreted correctly are constructive in a sense they brings you to what you are looking for. However, unneeded attention or false guidance are destructive because they lead you away from them.

People make decisions based on their feelings or advice irregardless of how irrational (or rational if you believe in them) they might be. The decisions made not only affects your own life but also the people around you as well. It can bring joy (if you are lucky), as well as despair into your world (as well as other people's world).

In other words, it is a risk you take each time you try to express feelings in words.


If anyone, who wishes to live in a peaceful and well-ordered world, and do not wish to bring despair to people. Should they refrain from expressing their feelings and by doing so, will they forfeit the chance to bring joy as well.

Is it true that without joy, no one will know how it feels like to be in despair.

I believe most people would want to create and live in a the world without hurt and pain, an "ideal" world. Should we all stop expressing our feelings?

But why do people have the tendency to take the risk of expressing feelings and emotions?


Many questions i had posted, and to whoever reading this any views on them?...

Would anyone to take the risk of sharing, as I had already done so by asking.

2 comments:

Zhizhong said...

got my first reply thru msn:

minty the great - says:

we learn something from everything in life. so you should not stop trying or expressing. you'll miss out alot in life if you fear something which may or may not even happen.

Thanks :)

Anonymous said...

I think ah if we shut up and dun tell people, we'll live to regret..if we tell later either it's reciprocated or one sided..hmm...haha i think just say and then wait haha see what happens haha :)