Feelings and Emotions: Constructive or Destructive.

Feelings are hard to describe and put into words. They either get misinterpreted by yourself as you write/voice them out or by the person who is reading it.

Broadcasted feelings brings attention or remain hidden until someone (maybe yourself) finds and read it... As misinterpreted feelings (most common) may not be true, they either bring about unneeded/excessive attention or sets people thinking the wrong way.

Feelings if interpreted correctly are constructive in a sense they brings you to what you are looking for. However, unneeded attention or false guidance are destructive because they lead you away from them.

People make decisions based on their feelings or advice irregardless of how irrational (or rational if you believe in them) they might be. The decisions made not only affects your own life but also the people around you as well. It can bring joy (if you are lucky), as well as despair into your world (as well as other people's world).

In other words, it is a risk you take each time you try to express feelings in words.

If anyone, who wishes to live in a peaceful and well-ordered world, and do not wish to bring despair to people. Should they refrain from expressing their feelings and by doing so, will they forfeit the chance to bring joy as well.

Is it true that without joy, no one will know how it feels like to be in despair.

I believe most people would want to create and live in a the world without hurt and pain, an "ideal" world. Should we all stop expressing our feelings?

But why do people have the tendency to take the risk of expressing feelings and emotions?


Many questions i had posted, and to whoever reading this any views on them?...

Would anyone to take the risk of sharing, as I had already done so by asking.

Rum and Coke =)

Back from assignment holiday~...

Boy! I do not have a good impression of Public Relations.

Although the idea of Public Relations might not be as "fake" as i perceive it.. but i guess most people in the industry spoils it.

Anyway, my day had been quite fruitful:

1) Went to the gym.
2) Attempted to start on the next assignment *note attempted


My cutee nephew Nicholas is away on vacation with his parents in KL, and i am staying away from my own parents as i think they need some private time and space, now that they don't have a baby to attend to.

I guess i need to learn how to enjoy life on my own too. :)

Rum & Coke while listening to my favourite tunes... *(This is life)



Song titled: Girl from Ipanema


You may like to know:
The girl in the clip is not from Ipanema.
Her name is Anouk Aimée (born April 27, 1932) is an Academy Award-nominated, Golden Globe-winning French film actress. Aimée was born Françoise Sorya Dreyfus in Paris, France

Treasure each day..

I feel the days are getting shorter as i grow older.

I spent the morning replying an email to a person whom i have shared many memories with. The email is a "closure" to the period where I have experienced the most intense happiness as well as pain. I actually drafted it until 4am this morning and I guess it more or less reflects my feelings. I hope she will be happy after reading it through. I guess she is. =)

Later in the noon, I spent some *quality time* with my parents. *(I should do this more often)

We went to the Food and Beverage Fair 2008 at Suntec City Convention Centre. Although, the exhibition two halls wide, but it wasn't really impressive. Most of the exhibits are actually common foodstuffs we can find anywhere in Singapore. Especially in Pasar Malams.

Examples: Tako Pachi, Satay, Taiwanese snacks... borring.....

I did have an enjoyable afternoon with my parents though... I asked Dad alot of questions about his younger days. Hehe... feels funny to relive those days of being a talkative and nosy child. :P

In the evening, I went for a run. Sembawang way track is quite crowded on weekends. Really enjoyable to watch people carrying out their activities as I zip along the track.

So.... that is all i did today, and it is coming to an end soon... See how short a day can be?

Zz.... Treasure each day.. :)

Sushi Kikuzawa ~ The Leap Years ~

I had my lunch at a very authentic japanese restaurant today. The name of the shop is Sushi Kikuzawa. I strongly recommend this place to anyone if you

1) are ok with raw fish
2) appreciate sushi
3) love surprises

The chef actually prepares the sushi right in front of you and serve it straight to your plate. Once in a while, he would throw in a special of the day. I heard the Ootoro (Fatty tuna) is one of their speciality but i didn get that today. Instead i got this (Tuna Belly) sushi which costs around $24 for two. It is absolutely delicious ~^^ YummY ^^~ my friend who doesn't like the taste of wasabi didn enjoy it as much.. *Its a waste.. haizz*

We paid about $35 each for a 2 hour premium sushi buffet. Its not really cheap but its quite a good deal for the authentic japanese atomsphere. Until i find somewhere better.. I guess that will be my favourite sushi huant.

After the meal, we watched The Leap Years. I guess alot of people had already watched it, therefore i shall not repeat the story again here...

The Leap Years

After Thoughts

It is not easy to find someone you can connect with.
However, there is no guarantee that there are no stronger connection somewhere else...

How do you know if he/she is the one that you think he/she is?

To wait or to move on is not a choice. It is all part of a bigger plan.

Who is more stubborn? (KS or Li Ann)

The most used word in love letters is "miss", not "love".
- Li Ann, The Leap Years

It is better to have loved and lost, than never to have loved before.
(Is it??)

It is not in the stars to hold our destiny, but in ourselves. - William Shakespeare (But the fortune teller's prophecy made sense afterall or maybe its just Coincidence?

because

Coincidence is God's way of staying anonymous. - Anonymous (God quoted???)

Enchanting

They have angelic voices...

Enchanting~~

Resolution 13 March

Ok.. i have decided that i shall do what is right for myself.. *(or at least seems right)

such as:

1) stop thinking about what has passed and live in the present and future
2) accept things as they are now and stop hoping for miracles
3) treasure the relationships with the people in my life now...

I hope living this way should get me back on track..

I've been off for too long now..


Something happy in my life:

1) My nephew Nicholas















Ain't he a darling.. He never fails to brighten up my day. :)


2) Studying

Studying in fact can be an enjoyment. Although i'm always complaining that i hate this or that subject, especially during exam or assignments crunch time. The funny part is that after all the stress is over, the sense of achievement cannot be replaced. Its like a ship reaching the harbour after braving through a storm. - (Cheesy)


3) Bossa Nova

Discovered this genre of music during happy times... it started off as an a lullaby. Where the beautiful voices of the artists lulls me into sleep each night.

Only recently, i realised the influence of Bossa Nova has on me. That when i feel all horrible and in despair, Bossa Nova tracks actually brings down the strong emotions inside me...

Some artists to recommend:

1) Olivia Ong
2) Emi Fujita
3) Noon

There are alot more but i'm still on the way of discovering them.. Enjoying the process..~ :)


4) Running

I'm ashamed to say i gave it up once for something which i thought to be truer than it.
Running is just like my soul, and i lost myself in the pursit of happiness.


5) My Family

My family have always been there for me... They want me to be happy and to lead a meaningful, even at their own expense.. Such selfless acts.. How can i disappoint them. :)

There will be alot more.. i will add as time goes by..

Zhizhong~

Ken Lee

this is hilarious!

What am i doing

What am i doing.... what am i doing... what am i doing... what am i doing...
what am i doing... what am i ...... what... wh

what am i

10.51 am Hurting terrbibly...

Why do you have to leave me... Do you know i can't go on without you.

To you, I may be just another person...

To me,

You are the world.

Quotes to live by..

"If you are successful, it is because somewhere, sometime, someone gave you a life or an idea that started you in the right direction. Remember also that you are indebted to life until you help some less fortunate person, just as you were helped"

- Melinda French's Valedictory Speech, Ursuline Academy

Ever wondered why we never learn from our mistakes?

I thought You were different.. but I was wrong..

You are just the same..


It is late to realise that now... but better late than never..

Maybe... maybe it is better to never?

:)

Should we stage our own Freeze mission?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jwMj3PJDxuo&feature=related

Aint it "Cool" ?.. haa

More here..

http://improveverywhere.com/2008/02/28/ie-global-23-freeze-events-around-the-world/#more-218

Motivation

I used to have them... but where had they all gone to?

Challenge myself? I don’t really like... but I did enter this anyway:


Now this should do it.. haha!

A New Beginning

This is the first day of my new life... :)